Shame and Self-Respect

On the sense of shame that holds a person back from wrong, distinguished from mere embarrassment or fear of being seen.

The English word is the first difficulty. Shame, in ordinary use, is something that attacks a person's worth — you are shameful. நாண் is not that, and 1011 says so before the chapter does anything else: Parimelazhagar's gloss is நன்மக்கள் நாணாவது இழிந்த கருமம் காரணமாக நாணுதல், shrinking on account of a base act. It is aimed at the deed. Nothing in these ten verses asks you to think less of yourself.

The definitions then argue about where the thing sits. 1012 makes it the one difference between two people whose food, clothing and circumstances are identical. 1013 goes further and makes it the ground worth stands on, with an analogy of inseparability — as life does not let go of the body, சால்பு does not let go of this. 1015 widens it past your own conduct altogether: those who weigh another's disgrace at the same weight as their own, ஒப்ப மதித்து, are what the world calls நாண்'s dwelling place.

Three of the verses need their boundaries said out loud. 1011 sets the நாண் of the good against the நாண் of women, and calls the second not theirs; the assumption underneath that is recorded here and rejected, not quietly dropped. 1017 says such a person would give up life before giving up நாண் — the couplet's force is real and no scene in this chapter stages self-harm, because the verse is about what a person will not do, never about a life being forfeit. And 1018, which says virtue itself would be ashamed of a man who feels nothing, is not an argument for doing what everybody expects. The crowd can be wrong, and being disapproved of for the right thing is not the failure this describes.

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